How do you recognize a model with genuine intentions!?
First of all, we need to figure out what we mean when we say, “genuine intentions”.
Some of you guys or girls might really get into it, but you have to know that you don't need to meet the model in person to have the confirmation that she has genuine intentions. Some of you might even look for a relationship or to get married, while some of you will only expect and demand honesty.
As for myself, I always expect and wish for honesty.
At the same time, we all know how hard it is to offer 100% honesty. When I say that I mean it from both sides! And what I mean by both is that I have experienced both parties, and that happened more than once, unfortunately. The good news about dishonesty is that sometimes it is necessary, and it happens when you’re trying to avoid hurting someone else’s feelings, precisely because you enjoy his/her company.
I know it doesn’t make much sense right now, but it will after I give you some examples. But that will happen when we have the chance to talk face-to-face. Until then, I would like to give you some insights into what I believe are the signs of a genuine model.
- She will not overwhelm you with compliments that you feel are not based on reality.
- She will stay in contact with you and keep writing you, even if you take a longer break from discussing with her in private.
- She will tell you things about her life that might not be the things you want to hear, but the things that are her reality.
- You feel the sympathy she has for you is real through her words, but even more through her behaviour.
- She can explain why she does certain things that might not make you happy.
- The way she reacts towards you in front of others.
- If your requests are making her feel uncomfortable, she can say no to your requests, even though she knows she might lose your interest.
- You can tell she opens to you about things she usually hardly tells anyone.
- The shared intimacy you have feels real for both of you.
- Never asks or accepts the money you send her. Even if it is for the “sick grandma”. There is no such thing: if she needs money, she is perfectly capable to make them for herself.
I know members like the idea of buying their love, even suggesting, and insisting on it. Just as much as some models like to “sell their fictional love”. But you must accept from the start that this is never the real, honest, pure love, built on real emotions. These are needs that are financially gained, for everyone involved. Which mostly ends up in a lot of drama and people getting hurt on both sides.
People feel when others are genuine or not, but in certain cases, signs are ignored. Which later grows into disappointment and sadness, even anger. I would suggest trying and not only read the signs but really SEE the signs, discuss them with your favourite model and accept the reality before you both — or just you — are disappointed.
I am not saying that the sites have only such models to offer. You just have to look and find the real people, just like in real life ☺️.
I just gave you a couple of examples of genuine behaviour in people that show real interest in you. I would go even deeper into this topic, in a face-to-face session. Having powerful, personal examples to share, but also examples that I experienced with and through other models. What I can say for certain is that I would rather answer honestly and win a friend, than be dishonest and lose a possible lifetime friendship, or even hurt someone.
